KAYODE – The Story of an Autistic Child (Series One) – Dexterity

By Omolara Jegede

The Oladeles had been married for five years with no child. They had gone through every medical treatment, herbal means, physical means yet all proved abortive.

They got exhausted of trying until a faithful day God himself blessed the couple with a baby.

“Dear, guess what?” Mrs Oladele queried her husband during their dinner.

“Hmmmn, you know am not so good at guess games” He replied.

“See this” she stretched forth her hands towards him to see the result of the test from their family doctor.

“What is this again? you and surprises” he smiled as he unwrapped the result.

“Wow! This is enormous it calls for celebration babe” Mr. Oladele lifted his wife up like a brand new baby he was so elated.

“Awnnn, Let’s thank God for remembering us this season”she responded.



During her pregnancy period (antenatal) her husband pampered, coddle her till her delivery day.

Theirs is what you could call a lovey dovey something smiles! butterflies in my belly right now.


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Nine months later,


I am Kayode Oladele (bring goodness along) that’s the name my parents gave to me but did I really bring goodness to my parents.

On the day of my welcoming ceremony to the world I was shown so much love by everyone, family, friends and well wishers came to celebrate my parents on my arrival.

Weeks later my father got promoted at his work place indeed the name Kayode was working for me and my family we became financially transformed until I got to age five.

My parents discovered I had autism after my fifth birthday.



My mother became worried sick about my health ordeal.

“Dear,There’s something I would like to discuss with you about Kayode” my mum

“Alright! I am all ears” my dad responded

“I feel bad whenever I see our neighbour’s children playing with Kayode and he isn’t responding normally as every other child I am so bothered, I see the hatred and weird looks on the faces of the other children the more reason why I stopped him from playing outside”she said looking downcast

“Woman, I think I once told you that boy isn’t my son you better take him to his father” he hissed as he stared complaisantly at his newspaper.

“Haaaa, So you mean I brought to your house a bastard!” She exclaimed in tears.

“Yes, this is even more than a bastard last I checked my family’s gene no autistic child is in my family we are all healthy. Maybe in your family lineage you have imebecile and physically challenged children there” Mr. Oladele said with discontentment.



Kayode sat aimlessly he could detect a problem but his condition was too worse to do anything, his arms were tiny, tantrums travelled from his mouth to his shoulders.

His mother picked him up to his room as she took him inside all that came to her mind was this(someday he will Kayode that is he will bring goodness to her heart) but how?

Days increased to weeks, weeks to month and months to year.


Kayode was seven he couldn’t speak well,walk well or think straight. All the doctors they visited said he was an autistic child and it was only God’s intervention that would make him whole.

One particular Sunday evening Mr.Oladele had invited his friends over to the house for dinner his wife was preparing the dinner she was too busy that she forgot Kayode was still in the sitting room. His father came in with his friends only to see Kayode with saliva flowing from his mouth this disgusted them.

They all managed to eat the dinner casting weird and pitiful glances on the Oladele’s at the state of their only child.

After the dinner,

Mr.Oladele saw his friends off to their cars
“Thanks for the dinner”Leke one of his friends said

“Don’t mention please” Mr.Oladele responded coldly

“Always take that your imbecile child inside that’s if you still want us to come to your house for dinner” Goke one of his bone straight friend said.

“I almost throw tantrums as I remembered the boy while eating that dinner, I think that boy isn’t your child” Ray added.

“That’s alright, thanks I have been hurt already don’t add to my wound” Mr. Oladele responded.

He returned back to his house with shades of anger

“Welcome dear” my mum

“What is welcoming in this house, you better go and kill that your God forsaken child he is a trans generational embarrassment” He vented ill words.

My mother began to lose weight and balance my health issue became a burden to her, She became sick as a result of this.



My father stopped coming home he left the big cozy apartment for myself and mother we later heard that he got married to another woman.

Everyday our neighbours made mockery of my mother.

“That one is a witch with a demon possessed child at her back” Iya Risi the pepper seller adjacent our house gossiped to her friends

“I heard her husband left her and the boy, what a poor man” Iya bisi replied.

“Who knows if the boy was their propitiation to wealth if you remember it was after the birth of the boy that they bought those cars and the man even got promoted at work, I am just connecting the dotted lines together anyways” Iya Orebe added.

“Na their problem be that, all that matters is how to sell all my pepper” Iya Risi concluded.

My mother was behind the pole she heard every of their gossip it was another backlash, She didn’t rest or display her discontentment before me.



I, Kayode knew that behind the smiles of my mother there were so many wounds and hurts. Often time I tried calling my mother it only sounded like I was a sheep doing the ‘baa baa ‘ sound.



Months later,

After my father’s departure from the house my mother was bedridden for two months. We had an august visitor

Something happened when the visitor came to our house.

Guess???



TO BE CONTINUED

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New Music: The Vessel – Daddy Oyoyo (Feat. Folabi Nuel)

Daddy Oyoyo by The Vessel featuring Folabi Nuel is a song that lays emphasis on God’s position as our Father. He is responsible for us, we can always trust Him to take care of us, we can be rest assured in His unfailing love.

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Ekiti ASUSS Chairman Bags Award

The Chairman, Academic Staff Union of Secondary Schools, ASUSS Ekiti State has bagged the award of Pillar of Education Support.

The award which took place at NUJ Press Centre, Akure, Ondo State was organized by African Education Monitor magazine.

The publisher of the African Education Monitor Magazine and the initiator of the award, Mr Daisi Adetarami said the aim of the award ceremonies was to celebrate teachers, who were key stakeholders in the education sector.

He noted that while waiting for the ‘Heavenly’ reward, teachers should be celebrated and encouraged so that they could do their best in spite of the prevailing circumstances.
He said: “They are the actual role models in the society. The society will not forget them. They should continue to do more”.

The recipient, Comrade Olusola Adigun appreciated the organizers for deeming him fit to be honored a second time, as he had been so honored 10 years ago by the same organization.

He dedicated the award to the State Administrative Council (SAC) of Ekiti ASUSS who m corporated with him over the years in transforming the Union to an envy of all.

Reflecting on the theme of the event: Ramping Up Quality in Nigeria’s Education Sector – The Critical Role of Stakeholders, Comrade Adigun said, “All hands must be on desk.

All stakeholders must see to the revival of education by funding the sector adequately. They should make the lives of teachers better. When teachers are owed salaries and entitlements, they won’t be encouraged to perform well.”

Executives and members of ASUSS, Ekiti State were there to honour the Chairman with their presence. Among whom were Deputy Chairman Com Thomas Okunola,
Secretary Com Austin Adeola, Com Gabriel Aladeduye, Com Oluwatoyin Ojo and many others.

BOBBY J – Jah’s Love [Audio + Lyrics]

Nigerian Gospel artiste, Bobby J is out with a new song titled Jah’s Love.


The uptempo reggae song is a pleasure to listen to. Infused with deep lyrics and the banging rhythm of root rock raggae, Jah’s Love will surely bring you closer to the love of God.

If is a fusion of Igbo, Izon and Akwa-Ibom languages.


Bayelsa-based Bobby Sariki known as Bobby J featured the RCCG Blessed Zonal Choir in Jah’s Love.


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Lyrics

Solo:
Me wanna tell you something ya don’t know
Am telling you something ya need to know
Nanaowei Itariemi o
Jah Jah’s Love
Thank the love fi the almighty (I say)

Chorus in izon:
Ayiba fereme, fere me ebi kan imie kadei o chai (2×)

If there is something good it’s Jah Jah’s grace
Something nice is Jah Jah’s presence
If it’s cute then itz Jah Jah’s face
Anything joyful is Jah Jah’s blessings
‘m louding it coz they don’t know o
They don’t know ooo
‘Itariemi o oh
‘Embele emi o oh

Chorus (in Izon):
Ayiba fereme, fere me ebi kan imie kadei o chai (2×)

Igbo solo:
Ifurum n’anya
Ifurum n’anya Chineke m o
Oh oh oh
Amaghi m o n’ifuru m n’anya otu a…Chukwu oma

Thank you Lord for your blessings
Thank you Lord for your grace
… I can’t explain.
Thank you Lord for your love
Thank you Lord for the good things
This’ s my love song to you…

Chorus in Akwa ibom:
(Ima mi o ima mi o
Abasi edi akwa ima mi o
Enye di ama mi o
Ami mamma ye.

Izon solo:
Jesus Itariemi bara meh’ sa nimigha werimeh
Akpo temeowei Itariemi bara meh’ sa nimigha tinmeh
Ayiba ye miemo o
Jehovah turbo ye mie no o “Chai”!

(Repeat Ijaw chorus:)

If there is something good it’s Jah Jah’s grace;
Something nice is Jah Jah’s presence;
If it’s cute then itz Jah Jah’s face;
Anything joyful is Jah Jah’s blessings;

Me wanna tell you something ya don’t know (ya don’t know oh);
Am telling you something ya need to know (need to know oh):
Nanaowei Itariemi o
Jah Jah’s Love (Itariemi o oh);
Thank the love fi the almighty I say (Embele emi o oh) :

End.